Sometimes visiting Mum is just difficult. She was confused and refusing help today, totally non responsive to the loving advances of the wayward daughter and son-in-law. Having a glass of wine and hoping she will be brighter tomorrow.
Faffed this a bit to match the day! Otherwise it has been intense, driving to Yorkshire to visit David's cousins and an old friend the same age as my Mum but in a different, happy, space.