Hard

Back at the old house to visit Kate and J. It had been Kate's 13th birthday the day before, so now a teenager. J was 9, sorry,  9 years and 5 months.

Was a difficult visit all round and I think particularly at that time for Kate, although also for J who could at least on the surface, gloss over it with his bravado.

Found the video tape of the visit, the Blip being a still from that. Have now digitalised it and think I ought to send it to them to view in private. I don't think it's one to see, at least for the first time, in a group.