Strange events!

I eventually went to see Dad's cousin Zoe, she produced some old photos, this is one of my Dad's parents, possibly an engagement photo. My Grandpa, Andy, was dead before I was born, but my Grandmother, Nora (we called her Ha-Ha) helped to look after us after Mum died so we spent a lot of time with her. 
She was due to marry another guy, but received a note from saying he wished it was him marrying her, so she jilted the 1st guy & eventually married Andy, so I wouldn't be here if that hadn't happened!