For Harry and Meghan
I do not trust the television's response to my camera, so I did not shoot any wedding moments ... but I did watch the whole event, all five hours of it. If you are not fond of royalty, that's okay with me, but hopefully I will not be expected to apologize for being one ... because I will not. I have remarked somewhere online that they have a function in much the same way non-royalty also have a function, and as long as everyone does what should be done and fulfills their function, that's okay. As for abuse, both sides abuse -- the wealthy because they don't want to 'share', and the have-nots as well when they cheat in their own way, so no pot-and-kettle name-calling is needed here.
Instead of wedding moments, I decided to shoot these two -- the very first strawberries from our backyard this year. I positioned them so that they form a heart together.
There were moments during the broadcast when I cried. Her mother was there all by herself to give moral support. The bride wasn't alone. When AW and I got married, I was totally alone. The alternative, though, would have been horrendous. It was bad enough that one step-parent came, in fact the one who abused me the most. The one woman I would have loved to have come has been absent from the start. Now, 30 years later, I have AW ... and that's it. People say my marriage has been a success. What many don't know is that it's not allowed to be anything else than a success. Not that I would have wanted it to be a failure, but it is just that the bridge I burned was well and truly burned. I don't need compliments for anything, actually. I just need one little thing that would mean a lot.
Wishing HRH Harry and his darling Duchess a lifetime of laughter, trust, contentment, and the passion and drive to realize their dreams. I wish them a life together till the end. Hugs to them both from the Ellaphant!
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