Croham Hurst Woods
Mum died 18 months ago and we made sure that on the nearest weekend to, what would have been, her 82nd birthday we all got together to raise a toast.
Importantly, top on the discussion 'agenda', was what to to do with her ashes. Our little family have now had time to think about what to do and consider options/implications carefully. The four of us had different feelings about whether to scatter the ashes in this place where we have many happy memories, or whether to have a memorial plaque somewhere so there was somewhere to visit.
Taking each other's feelings and 'needs' into account, we've made a decision and can now move forward. Emotionally hard but very important day.